You should start with these instructions:
Go to theApple Accountor theiCloudsign-in page.
SelectForgot Apple Account or password?below the login fields.
slide in your Apple Account or iCloud email address in the text box and selectContinue.

Jump to the next set of instructions depending on the page you see.
Your Apple Account is used for signing into iCloud, including iCloud Mail.
Resetting your iCloud Mail password is a matter of resetting your Apple Account password.

If you choseAnswer security questions, selectContinue.
On theReset Passwordpage, enter a new Apple Account password.
Enter it again to confirm that you typed it correctly.

Check your phone for a text message from Apple.
Enter that code into theEnter verification codescreen on the Apple website, then selectContinue.
Set up a new password on theReset Passwordpage.

SelectReset Passwordto reset your Apple Account password.
Enter the passcode to your machine.
Enter a new password and then enter it again to verify the password.

SelectChangeto change the Apple password.
In macOS Catalina (10.15), selectApple ID/Apple Account>Password & Security, then selectChange Password.
In macOS Mojave (10.14) or earlier, selectiCloud>Account Details>Security, then selectChange Password.

To continue, authenticate yourself by entering the password you use to access to your Mac.
Go to theManage your Apple Accountpage on the Apple website and sign in when asked.
In theSecuritysection, selectEdit.

If you don’t see this option, the Recovery Key option isn’t available.
You should instead rely on two-factor authentication.
SelectContinueon the pop-up message about your old Recovery Key deactivating upon the creation of a new one.
Press thePrint Keybutton to save the Recovery Key.
SelectActivate, enter the key, and then pressConfirmto verify that you saved it.
Your contact must use an Apple gear that’s also running a compatible version of the firmware.
These instructions use an iPhone, but the directions will be similar on an iPad or Mac.
Select theplus signnext toAdd Recovery Contact.
If you have peopledesignated as family members, you’ll receive them as suggestions.
Pick one of them or selectChoose Someone Else.
Choose someone from your contacts, and follow the instructions to send them a text.
FAQ
Change the email associated with your Apple Accountto change it for your iCloud email.
OpenSettingson your iOS unit and select your name >Name, Phone Numbers, Email>Editunder Reachable At.
Tocheck your iCloud emailin Windows 10, you’ll need to set up iCloud on your PC first.
However, it’s also possible to check your iCloud email from a web web app.
Todelete your iCloud email, pick the message to delete and then select thegarbage can icon.
Or select multiple messages, then selectDelete.